tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2008607033949672990.post4669198438293596282..comments2023-03-27T09:16:10.222-04:00Comments on Pink Beautiful Love: My Name Is?!Ashellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07267754231462030031noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2008607033949672990.post-16021946039057395332011-09-16T22:10:46.129-04:002011-09-16T22:10:46.129-04:00Thanks everyone for your supportive comments. Aft...Thanks everyone for your supportive comments. After a while, I am starting to come around... Maybe the experts are right after all (along with Anonymous and <a href="#c9177752382605229834" rel="nofollow">Jenarcissist @ the closet narcissist</a>. Calling myself names or focusing on the negative aspects is not all that healthy. Lately I've being doing less labelling and more exploration into why those negative perspectives are there... <br /><br />But I must admit that therapy sometimes turns me into an unber bitch. This whole process can be tiring, irritating and difficult at most times.Ashellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07267754231462030031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2008607033949672990.post-14725856358784414262011-08-30T00:21:11.492-04:002011-08-30T00:21:11.492-04:00I am glad you are feeling more energetic these day...I am glad you are feeling more energetic these days, keep positive! xoxxMarcia B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15965200821614649941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2008607033949672990.post-60525219569807790772011-08-29T20:52:33.370-04:002011-08-29T20:52:33.370-04:00I am so proud of you for the way that you are hand...I am so proud of you for the way that you are handling this. This is my first time here, but you seem like such a strong, positive person. I'm sure that this is really difficult for you, but you have a great outlook.<br /><br />http://www.glamkittenslitterbox.com/<br />Twitter: @GlamKitten88Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04872576992263682398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2008607033949672990.post-91777523826052298342011-08-29T15:47:01.820-04:002011-08-29T15:47:01.820-04:00I can understand the need to just "get it out...I can understand the need to just "get it out." I get where they're coming from as well, but I agree it's important to have an outlet, especially for someone who is having to adjust to being so open about feelings. Is the "scolding" happening when you're one-on-one with somebody or when you're in a group of other people? Maybe they're afraid of the self-talk being contagious, so to speak, in the group. It's great to redirect phrases to try and change your way of thinking, because I am a BIG believer that the more you tell yourself something, whether positive or negative, the more you will eventually learn to believe it even if you don't at first! But the root causes of WHY you think the way you think still need to be addressed...like, is it a way to control something in your life, is it simply self-loathing and where did that originate, etc. Just make sure you're not simply feeding them what they want to hear to avoid getting scolded, or else your focus shifts from healing yourself to just giving them what they want so they'll get off your back...it won't help you in the long run.<br /><br />I'm really glad to hear your energy is gaining. I'm willing to put money on how awesome your bod's lookin', and maybe it will just take you some time to adjust to the new view in the mirror. Please forgive me for this poor analogy that is absolutely nothing like what you're going through...but maybe the principle will apply? It's like when you think you look awful without makeup because you're so used to seeing yourself with it on...once you stop wearing it as much and eventually get used to how you look without it, you realize there's nothing wrong with you and never was; it was just all a matter of what you were used to and your perception.Jenarcissist @ the closet narcissisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07427993886300110387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2008607033949672990.post-84018382410870500222011-08-27T21:49:18.814-04:002011-08-27T21:49:18.814-04:00Thanks for the report on your progress. This is y...Thanks for the report on your progress. This is your blog, so feel free to share anything here in whatever words you want to use. Having an outlet for utterly-candid expression is very important.Shybikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15263331247319768989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2008607033949672990.post-35493040792318047302011-08-27T19:11:18.158-04:002011-08-27T19:11:18.158-04:00But if you allow yourself to talk negative about y...But if you allow yourself to talk negative about yourself then you are still believing those bad thoughts. I know it is hard but rethink what you see .... you are healthier now and your energy shows it. You look awesome and you need to allow yourself to believe that! <br />Remember how much you are always loved.<3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com